THE HONEST APPROACH · FIELD MANUAL + 30-DAY REP WORKBOOK

No lines. No tricks.
The three moves women say they're waiting for.

From large public surveys, with every source linked: 72% of women on Hinge care more about effort than a higher income, and 74% of straight women on Hinge say effort means making specific plans in advance.[1]

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The three moves

01

Ask the follow-up

Pick up on something she said and go one level deeper. 61% of Gen Z daters said a follow-up to something said earlier is the question they value most.[2]

02

Make the plan

What + where + when + an easy out. Specific beats "we should hang out sometime".

03

Show up

Confirm, turn up on time, and do what you said you'd do.

Look inside

Real pages from the Field Manual and Workbook
20 field scriptsA page for every repEvery source linked

What's inside

Field Manual · 34 pages

  • 11 short chapters
  • 20 field scripts for awkward moments
  • Openers in real life and on apps
  • Reading interest and respecting a no
  • First-date playbook
  • A section for guys coming back to dating
  • 8 worksheets and a wallet rep card
  • Every stat linked to its source

30-Day Rep Workbook · 39 pages

  • A page for every 10-minute daily rep, with easier and harder versions
  • Nerves scores before and after
  • Weekly reviews
  • Day 0 and day 30 self-checks

Conversation Cheat Sheet · 6 pages

  • The three-level follow-up, 10 question stems, 6 openers
  • Asking in person and on apps, 8 first-date ideas, warm exits, wallet card

Instant PDF download, A4 and US Letter.

What this isn't

No pickup. No negging, no "alpha" frames, no scripts for getting past a no. A no ends it. This is about being curious, specific and reliable, not about tricks.

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FAQ

I'm shy. Is this for me?

Yes. Week one has no dating at all.

I'm in my 30s or 40s, or divorced.

There's a section for you: coming back to dating.

Is this pickup?

No.

Are results guaranteed?

No guide can promise that. It gives you skills and a practice plan.

What format is it?

Instant PDF download, in A4 and US Letter. Print it or read it on your phone.

Where do the numbers come from?

Large public surveys (Hinge, Pew Research Center, Gallup, Survey Center on American Life) and a peer-reviewed study. Most samples are US or global app users. Every source is linked in the manual.

I'm struggling right now.

Please talk to someone. Find a free, confidential helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. In Australia: Lifeline 13 11 14.

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Field Manual + 30-Day Rep Workbook. All 4 PDFs, 73 pages.

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Field Manual

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34 pages, 20 field scripts, 8 worksheets.

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Cheat Sheet

$4

6 pages of what to actually say.

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